Знай свой род и уши свои
6 Jan 2011 19:57Aujourd'hui, on est pressé et la tendance, sauf chez certains conservateurs des campagnes, est de se présenter dès le premier abord.
Le processus qui vient d'être décrit concerne une rencontre entre des personnes qui ne se connaissent pas. Pour des gens qui se connaissent, le tableau est un peu différent.
Sociological Notes. In traditional Ɓasaa society, introducing oneself (“My name is so-and-so”) was not the first piece of information that one gave to a person one met or to whose house one went. Manners decreed first a handshake. The host offered the guest a seat, then some kola, palm wine, and something to eat. It was only afterwards (for people used to have plenty of time) that the guest was asked to introduce himself, to trace his genealogy, to say where he had come from, where he was going, and what he wanted. A guest who was incapable of tracing his ancestry was considered a slave, and his ears might be cut off to indicate his status (among the Ɓasaa, slaves' ears were cut off). That is why getting acquainted always started with a study of the newcomer's genealogy.
Today, people are in a hurry, and the tendency, except among certain conservative rural groups, is to introduce oneself immediately.
The above process, of course, is for persons who do not know each other; among acquaintances, such formalities are not necessary.
—Rebecca L. Moreton and H.M. Bôt Ba Njock with Pierre Sende, Cameroon Ɓasaa